60 would you rather questions for couples

Holidays and weekends

• Would you rather a week in a city you have never seen or a week doing nothing by a lake?
• Would you rather plan every day of a trip or land with no plan at all?
• Would you rather a long weekend every month or one big trip a year?
• Would you rather camp in the rain or stay in a bad hotel?
• Would you rather always take the window seat or always get to choose the film?
• Would you rather a road trip with no music or a flight with no screen?
• Would you rather explore a new place alone for a day or go to the same café every morning together?
• Would you rather a beach at dawn or a city at midnight?
• Would you rather eat street food every night or one very expensive dinner?
• Would you rather lose your luggage or lose your phone for the trip?
• Would you rather a cabin with a fire or a flat with a rooftop?
• Would you rather ski or never see snow again?
• Would you rather a surprise trip planned by me or a trip you plan for both of us?
• Would you rather sleep in every day of a holiday or see the sunrise every day?
• Would you rather get lost together or arrive on time separately?

Habits and home

• Would you rather cook every night or clean every night?
• Would you rather a house with a huge kitchen or a huge garden?
• Would you rather live in the countryside with a long commute or in the city with a tiny flat?
• Would you rather never do laundry again or never wash up again?
• Would you rather one big dog or two small cats?
• Would you rather host every dinner party or attend every dinner party?
• Would you rather a bath with no shower or a shower with no bath?
• Would you rather keep the thermostat high or wear the jumper?
• Would you rather a shared calendar or a shared bank account?
• Would you rather wake up at six with energy or sleep until nine and drag?
• Would you rather live near your family or near mine?
• Would you rather get rid of the TV or get rid of the sofa?
• Would you rather always make the bed or never make the bed?
• Would you rather a home full of plants or a home full of books?
• Would you rather redo the kitchen or buy a car?

About us

• Would you rather relive our first date or fast-forward to our tenth anniversary?
• Would you rather I always told you the truth or always told you what you wanted to hear?
• Would you rather have known me at sixteen or meet me at sixty?
• Would you rather a partner who plans or a partner who improvises?
• Would you rather a note in your lunch every day or a big surprise once a year?
• Would you rather we had the same taste in music or the same taste in food?
• Would you rather know everything I am thinking for a day or have me know everything you are thinking?
• Would you rather argue and make up fast or never argue and never make up?
• Would you rather we shared one phone for a week or one wardrobe for a month?
• Would you rather I cooked your favourite badly or someone else cooked it perfectly?
• Would you rather a long love letter or a short voice note?
• Would you rather be told I love you every day or shown it every day, if you could only have one?
• Would you rather I remembered every date or every detail?
• Would you rather be the funny one or the calm one?
• Would you rather grow old somewhere warm or somewhere with seasons?

Silly ones

• Would you rather fight one horse-sized duck or a hundred duck-sized horses?
• Would you rather have hands for feet or feet for hands?
• Would you rather only whisper or only shout?
• Would you rather your laugh was a car horn or your sneeze was a trumpet?
• Would you rather always be ten minutes late or always be an hour early?
• Would you rather have a rewind button or a pause button for your life?
• Would you rather taste everything you smell or smell everything you taste?
• Would you rather be a background extra in every film or the villain in one?
• Would you rather be able to talk to animals or speak every language?
• Would you rather have to sing everything or dance everywhere?
• Would you rather eat a whole lemon or a whole raw onion?
• Would you rather be famous for something embarrassing or unknown for something brilliant?
• Would you rather have a personal chef or a personal driver?
• Would you rather it was always summer or always autumn?
• Would you rather know how you will die or when?

The scored version

On two phones, each of you picks privately and the picks are revealed side by side. Every match adds to a compatibility score that follows your room, so after a few weeks you have a percentage for how alike you two really are. Eight dilemmas a round, three minutes, no repeats for a month.